Psychic Susan Speaks With Spirit | Making The Choice to Move On
Love makes the world go around and the bulk of the psychic readings I do are about love. When is love coming? Will love stay? Is it over? There has been many times a client comes to me for a psychic reading asking about a breakup – or worse — a status of a relationship where they have no idea if it’s on or off. Sometimes I can deliver good news, but often I have had to deliver the hard news that s/he isn’t coming back. They are hard words to deliver but I know they’re even harder words to hear and wrap one’s heart and mind around.
Sometimes the answer isn’t as simple as “it is over”. Sometimes the energy is stuck either because there’s a vicious cycle of back and forth or because the object of the client’s affection really doesn’t want to take things to the next level nor do they want to work towards that goal. This is the rough stuff. This is when the client has to decide if they should stay in the energy that is causing them such confusion and pain or leave and try to make a new life and new relationship for themselves. People often wonder why, as a psychic medium, I say I don’t believe in destiny. Situations like this are why. Decisions need to be made and often they carry with it karmic energy that is scary to look at and deal with.
Most people know the decision that needs to be made. The problem comes in on what do they do next? How do they move on? How do they get that person they hold so dear out of their hearts so that they can begin to heal and find someone new? How do they get that person out of their thoughts so that their hearts can begin to heal? I am the first to say that as time passes things do get easier. Not at, first of course, but as time passes we begin the process of allowing our heart’s to heal. Yet sometimes time isn’t enough and we can find ourselves in a vicious circle of not being able to let go and release the energy of the previous relationship in order to move on.
The answer is deceptively simple: Change your mind.
It sounds easy, but there’s a lot of work that needs to be done in order be a success at changing your mind. Yet, this practice, once learned, is a stepping stone to not just opening your heart, but your energy your abundance; it is the first step to changing EVERYTHING. It is foundation and basic tenant of any number of practices such as “The Secret”, “Power of Positive Thinking” and all the other abundance creating philosophies.
•Every single time you find yourself thinking about him/her. STOP! Change your mind and think about something else; anything else as long as it is positive and beneficial to you.
•Make a list of positive affirmations and thoughts. Keep that list with you at all times.
•Keep your friends on speed dial. Make it clear to them you don’t want to wallow in the past. When you find yourself wallowing, call one of them just to chat. If one friend is busy, call the next person on your list. You’re goal isn’t to whine or cry. Just call and ask: What’s new? Then focus on what they’re saying to you instead of letting your mind drift off to him/her.
•Do something else. Do anything physical. Clean the kitchen, vacuum the rugs, take the dog for a walk or just go walking yourself and focus on the natural world.
•Read those positive affirmations first thing in the morning. I’m famous for taking a lipstick or eye pencil and writing an affirmation on my bathroom mirror so I know it is the first thing I read in the morning and the last thing I read at night. You’d be surprised how well it works! Try it!
•Nights are hard. Keep those affirmations by your bedside along with a good book. Or maybe a not so good book that will make you fall asleep faster!
by Psychic Susan Speaks With Spirit
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