True Love Questions And Answers
Q: How can I tell if my significant other is cheating on me?
A: Determining whether or not a relationships fidelity is intact can be a daunting task. However some warning signs that may indicate problems in this area include:
1) Unexplained absences from the home.
2) Lying about where partner has been.
3) Defensive attitude and irritability.
4) Disinterest in sexual or intimate contact.
5) Evasive answers to questions regarding fidelity.
6) Unexplained late night calls that hang up when you answer.
7) Cosmetics stains on clothing.
8) Unexplained marks on body.
9) Sudden incredible unexpected late nights at work or business trips.
10) Hotel Motel receipts or unexplained charges on credit card or bank statements.
Q: How Can I keep the romance alive in my relationship?
A: Variety is the spice of life try doing something unexpected at an unexpected time. Spontaneity really adds Pow! to your romantic endeavors. her are some examples and don't be afraid to use your imagination.
1) Try stimulating intimacy by changing your appearance dramatically.
2) Go on an unexpected weekend get away to a mystery location.
3)Feed each other at the dinner table by candle light.
4) Create an intimate love game.
5) Reminiscing about good times that you have had together.
6) Write a poem or song and reading or singing it to your significant other.
7) Buy an unexpected gift and present it at an unexpected time.
8) Stimulate intimate conversations about romantic topics.
9) Try greeting your partner in an unexpected way when they return home.
10) Try Decorating the house together in a romantic way.
11) Join charitable organizations together or plan a romantic interlude where you meet in a public place feigning that you have just met and get to know each other all over again.
True Love Answers - Open Effective Communication
Keeping open lines of communication is a critical aspect of any functioning relationship never take accusatory tones when approaching a sensitive subject such as fidelity. Always use I feel statements and try avoid You statements. For example You spend a lot of time at the office are you cheating on me? Could be more tactfully rephrased as " I feel as though we are growing apart and I am concerned about the amount of time work is exacting from our relationship. Are there any issues that need to be addressed about our relationships fidelity?" As you can see although slightly more passive the I feel statement remains effective and assertive and keeps the lines of communication open by keeping the other person from taking a defensive posture. A defensive posture ultimately shuts down the lines of communication by triggering defense mechanisms that are inherit in all humans. Once constructive communication has stopped and the sender and receiver no longer have an open dialogue the chance of reaching a resolution to issues in our, interpersonal relationships, is greatly diminished. Open fair discussions rather than loud verbal sparring matches are required to reach resolution to issues that either concern us, situations, or behavior patterns we are not happy with. Avoid bringing up unrelated past issues when discussing current ones as it is easy to digress and often we find ourselves opening old wounds and utilizing unfair fighting tactics as a result the current issue is often forgotten and the tangent topics of the past become the issue at hand leading to no resolution of the current issues, frustration, anger, bitterness, and resentment.Inspirational Quotes
- True Happiness
- "Happiness depends upon ourselves." -Aristotle-
- Human Nature
- "All human actions have one or more of these seven causes: chance, nature, compulsions, habit, reason, passion, desire." -Aristotle-
- Love, Friendship, Happiness
- "Affection is responsible for nine-tenths of whatever solid and durable happiness there is in our lives." -C. S. Lewis-
- "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." -C. S. Lewis -
- "You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly." - Sam Keen
True Love Answers, Relationship, And Romance Advice
Free Psychic Network wishes you the best and hopes that true happiness, romance, and love pervade your life with the sweetest fragrances of the most exotic gardens. May the blooms of your love never whither but grow offshoots and bloom again an again. May these buds get fuller and richer with a more pleasant fulfilling aroma each time your love blooms anew!