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  1. Jtvt1803
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  3. Thursday, January 23 2014, 09:47 AM
I first met this guy over a year ago.the start of this year it looks like he was trying to take what we had to another level by introducing me to his parents, brothers and son.

He's very emotionally verbally but confusing me with his actions. I'm just wondering what his intentions are and maybe it might be better for me to just put him in the friend category?

Any insight would be appreciated.:)
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Hello, so actions speak louder than words, and you have seen some actions, but you need to see more. A man can say he loves you and wants to marry you, but until you get that ring and a date is set, it's just words. Introducing you to his parents and son is him letting you inside his walls, to a more intimate place, where he is now more vulnerable. It's a big step with men. Now that he's done this he may be getting, "when are you marrying her?" from his parents, and "who is that woman you want to allow around our child?" from his child's mother. Two very conflicting sentiments from people who are still involved in his life. What you do is support him with these things. If you are around hi child again, make sure you are an angel to the child, and amiable to the mother, hold you have a need to be. Around his parents, keep topics simple. Try not to discuss any hot topics until you've known them for a bit. Movies, music, trips, home decorating, sports etch neutral topics to discuss with them right now. As they give him less slack he will begin to calm a a bit, and then you can discuss with him how actions speak louder than words! Good luck! :)
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Thank you for your insight. I'm not sure that his parents etc.. are the reasons for his behaviour. When together he's the most verbally and physically expressive man. The the distancing once apart. I guess compounding the situation is the fact we live in different states.

But having said that at the start he was in contact more frequently and since meeting his parents this year, it's changed. As much as I try not to let his actions affect me emotionally, it does.

I guess I just wanted some clarity and answers as to the sincerity of his feelings for me and is it worthwhile holding on and if things will improve between us or am I right and I should be trusting my instincts that I am only a diversion for him when he's here visiting his family and it would be in my best interest to walk away?
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I am certain your instincts are correct in this matter. The fact that you question walking away speaks volumes about the situation. Don't doubt your inner voice it usually has the right answer.
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