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  1. charlyrock1968
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  3. Monday, August 12 2013, 12:30 PM
Good Day Gimel!
Please I need your help.
I think I made the biggest mistake of my life.
My husband and I had some problems.
First years were good then something happened
in his personal life and everything changed.
He treated me like dirt and caused major financial issues.
I signed him into the service thinking it would help him get on track.
I did not want him to be sent back to Jamaica.
After a few years of being separated having my self esteem hit rock bottom I cheated.
Now I am the enemy he hates me and took up with another girl.
He cant even see his actions brought me to it.
I feel like ive ruined my life and my sons who misses him something awful
Will he ever forgive me.
I was very angry at his actions which is why we separated.
I realize now his good points were good and that maybe
he just need support to straighten out the bad ones.
I wish I had had more tolerance as now he is doing great.
Unfortunately he wants nothing to do with me.
Is there redemption for me my conscience is soo heavy.
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Ms. Italiano thanks for your help. I believe I had a breakthrough.
I don't know what I said but my Husband and I talked deeply yesterday.
He is still angry but I feel there is still hope.
It will probably be touch and go and take awhile.
However I think theres still love there.
we talked counseling in the past and I will suggest it again when
the opportunity arises. I love this man faults and all.
I just hope he still loves me enough to fix it and pray for forgiveness.
I know there are other fish but I want this one.....lol
Were both virgos and we feel deeply that's why the pain is hard to get over.
Its no longer one sided We finally agree we hurt each other.
For us headstrong folk that's progress.
I know he has strong reservations and probably doesn't trust me.
I just know deep down we were meant to be.
It as though our souls are connected spiritually.
I can still feel it and did when we talked.;)
Tell me What vibes do you get on this?
Will we get past this?
Is there hope for CAR and CAW?
Perhaps you or one of your collegues can advise me.
Thanks

PS one more obstacle we now live in different states.
although I would move in a hearbeat if I thought it would help
Blessings
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Hey unfortunately all my posts erased but I was wondering if you had done what I suggested about telling him about your sins and how you want them to see each other. Tell me how it goes and keep me updated please.
Sincerely, Ms.Italaino
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Thanks so much Ms. Italiano for checking on me.
However I feel all is lost.
This girl is holding on like a dog with a bone.
He does not want to talk to or see me or my son.
He is convinced he made a commitment to her and
told her he would never go back to me. Owes it to her
to keep that promise. Its like I don't even know him anymore.
He is still selfish and self centered only sees his pain only and
none of the pain he inflicts on others. He caused me major hurt financial and family.
It took * years for me to recover financially and bridge some of the family gaps.
He has some abandonment issues with his mom and his dad has been sick since he was young.
I feel its his anger towards her that he took out on me.
This girl is taking advantage of his own insecurities.
Whatever the reason he no longer wants me.
Why do I feel like he was the one? Still love him but I ruined it and blame myself.
I give up. I just want to recover. I keep saying move on but to what.
Will I ever have someone who returns my love?
Please help?
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Yes. That's where the term there is other fish in the sea comes in to play. I feel you will find someone when the time is right. You need to be patient and to keep your head up.
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If you are able to get through his thick head and re open his eyes I feel you guys will definitely get back together its just a matter of time.
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