I met this man JMC recently and we hit it off right away. It was all very intense and deep. For some reason he said something that bothered me (which isnt logical) and I lashed out at him. He asked me for some time, but Im scared he isnt coming back and Im feeling really sad. Ive been crying so much today, Do you see if he will come back? Are we going to be together?
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Some say “true love is never having to say you’re sorry”…However, I disagree as I feel that an apology not only shows empathy and character , but also has a cathartic affect for us (helping relieve guilt/shame associated with a conscious violation of our value system). The fact that you feel sad does not mean you should be together (more likely is that a decrease in the oxytocin level in your brain is to blame), however, I strongly suggest you reach out and apologize for the outburst. It will help you and may mend the relationship.
Accepted AnswerHi Gimel, just wanted to post an update on this relationship.
This morning JM told me the connection with me is too intense and that its making him detour from his Life Purpose, so he asked me if we could take it slow and remain friends for the time being. I told him, I understood where he is coming from and that I respect what he requires, but that unfortunately I cannot switch my feelings off, and become just a friend after sharing so much Intimacy.
So now, Ive decided to leave this as Is, even though Im hurting to the very core of my Being. I cant settle for less than I want and deserve.
This is a very trying and rough time for me.
Thank you for your words, advice and for listening,
If you can give me any other guidance I would appreciate that.