I see my ex/friend (David) as an extremely sensitive, insecure man who has been deeply hurt by women in the past. I think he may actually care about me in a romantic way but is scared that I'll hurt him (due to insecurity about our age difference). I also think that if we continue to be friends, he will eventually fall in love with me and want to pursue a long-term relationship. On the other hand, a male friend of mine insists that David's true character consists of him being a very arrogant jerk who uses women and only wants to keep me around to eventually get back into my pants. I just don't see that. I think he's truly a very sweet, shy man. Is my intuition correct or way off? I'm almost always right about people, and strongly rely on my intuition...but maybe I'm just naive?
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Hello irisbramble, I see that your intuition is correct about David. He does possess a sweet, sensitive persona. There are some romantic feelings for you still had by him. You and he do still possess some sembalnce of a spiritual connection. However, there are some behavioral traits and character flaws that make people see a very unfavorable side of David. This combined with stories of his past make others close to you wary of David's true intentions. That being sid, if I lsitened to all of the negative stories about my husband I never would have married him. I saw a side of him that nobody else saw and I never have known all of the negative things said about my husband to be true. Sometimes others will portray a person in a negative light in order to try to manipulate you for whatever their reasons may be. Be careful of this concerning your friends. Listen to them with an open ear, and be careful not to close your heart!