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  1. ikcarolyn
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  3. Monday, March 24 2014, 05:47 AM
*sorry if I already posted this - the school's internet is really slow right now*

I had my first roommate at the beginning of the school year (August ****). Her name was Katelyn. At first I thought we were gonna be friends (as she said she thought we "would get along great";). It was Hell from then on. She wouldn't talk to me or even acknowledge me when I said or asked something (she would always be on her phone texting). If she did respond it was with a not straight answer ("I think so," "I believe so...";) like she didn't want me to know anything about her or her life. The only time she WOULD talk to me is if she wanted to complain about something I did. She moved out in October to move in with someone who threatened to kill someone (not kidding) and later she pretty much said it was my fault that I made her move out. She didn't even tell me she was going to move out and when I walked in everything she owned was gone. It wasn't until I posted something on Facebook that she was like "oh, I just wanted cleanliness". No offense, but if I had known my messiness was bothering her THAT much I would have done something about it. I feel like there's something else she really disliked about me, and made her not want to talk to me. I don't know what though, it's just a feeling. After this happened, my depression was growing worse, because it made me feel like no matter how nice I was people weren't going to like me, and they wouldn't want to be my friend. Anyway...

It's March **** and I still wonder why did she acted the way she did to me. I was as nice as I could be to her; and yet she was nice to pretty much everyone except me. She is probably one of the few people I have ever met that I really grew to dislike and would love to see some sort of comeuppance happen to her (and if you would like to tell me about any comeuppance she will eventually get - although it's wrong of me to think so - that would be very satisfying and would make me feel better...*evil laugh*).

And all I wanted was a nice roommate (I didn't care if she was ugly, nasty, had horrible taste in music or anything - I just wanted her to be nice!) All I wanted was a roommate I could be friends with.

I'm really starting to dread getting another roommate next semester as I don't want this experience again. If you can, will you tell me if I'll get a nice roommate next semester (Fall ****)... at least nicer than this girl was?
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Hi ,

I am sensing that the negative energy prevents you from attaining your goal. The greatest gift you have is that of forgiveness. In order to move forward you must forgive your past roommate as holding a grudge and wishing ill fate will backfire upon you times seven. So, if you truly hope to enjoy a better semester this fall I feel you must let go of the angst you hold inside. It is very important that you truly forgive your roommate from last year as I sense that harboring this hatred inside will consume you. I also see that if you do find a way to rise above the drama you find next semester quite enjoyable. I feel that in order to attract a positive outcome you must start putting out positive vibrations into the universe. If you manage to do this you will find that next semester your roommate will not only be tolerable, but possibly even a life long friend. However, it is imperative that you put the negative experience from last semester behind you as carrying it forward will taint the atmosphere if you do not.

Stay positive, focus on positive outcomes, and keep your mind centered. These three concepts will put you on the path towards what you desire this coming school year. Bright blessings to you, and I wish you the best as you make your way towards your degree.
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I identify with the sentiment. I know letting go is often very hard. I am faced with this issue every single day of my life. I feel you are a good decent person deep down inside. I know when someone violates trust how hard it is to trust again, but you must as it will impact your life in a very real, and very negative way. Sometimes people do these things because they are jealous other times they do it because they themselves had it done to them. Just remember how hurt, and broken one must be to perpetrate this type of fraud against another then you may start to pity her instead of strongly dislike her.

Finally, you are very welcome I am so happy i was able to help you with this troubling spiritual issue. However, the real credit belongs to you as your rise above this drama, in your life, and put your best foot forward this fall.
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Thanks for your answer. I know I should just move on and stuff but it's easier said than done I suppose. When things go really badly for me it tends to eat me up (or as you said, consume) me inside.

I really try my best not to hate or even dislike people, but this girl... she just pushed my buttons! *sigh* And I guess it's just human nature (or my nature) but I just like seeing people that treat me badly suffer, or getting karma. I know that's no way to live, though. I'll try to stop wishing badly on people that do me wrong and just get them "out of sight, out of mind" - again, that's going to be easier said than done!

I just don't understand why she was nice to me the first few days - then started to change her tune and didn't even want to talk to me, let alone get to know each other. Was it something I said, or how I looked?

Again, thanks for the answer.
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