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  1. ikcarolyn
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  3. Monday, April 14 2014, 10:46 PM
Lately I just feel incredibly hollow and lonely. I feel like a shell of who I am. I just feel alone and I'm hoping some people will come in my life that I can have a deep connection with.

Just wondering if I'll manage to find my first boyfriend soon (and if so, what will his personality be like or what will his looks be like? I hope he's handsome... :D)

Also wondering if I'll meet any longterm friends soon; I pretty much lost contact with nearly every friend I had left at high school and technical college. My best friend and I no longer talk (not my fault; I tried to keep the connection going but he went from being inseparable with me to just messaging me on Facebook when he "didn't forget".)

Part of me wants to try to meet new people - yet I remember all the times when people started treating me badly, or the people I cared about who stopped talking to me and I'm like "what's the point if everyone just leaves?"

But yeah... sorry for rambling. I'd like to know if I'll manage to make longterm (or lifetime) friends or find my first boyfriend. Thank you as always.
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You are very welcome dear one. I sense that you will meet friends but, you must assert yourself. Lately you have been "hiding out" so you must do one of the hardest things on your path of reconnecting with others, which is to put yourself "out there". Right now you feel vulnerable, hurt, and scared. Courage is key here. You must step outside of your comfort zone, and make yourself accessible to others. Although you feel the pain of past friendships that soured by moving forward you allow fresh relationships to take away their bitter taste.

Life is fleeting so enjoy every minute of every day. Whether with new friends or old your life is worth sharing with others. You enrich the lives of those around you with your unique views, ideas, and laughter. Your warm heart should never be bottled up, and kept away from others because of fleeting friendships. Moreover, if your friendships are fleeting they may actually be more of acquaintances.

Keep your head up and keep putting out positive vibes, and you will attract the right people into your circles. And, remember true friendship like true love never hurts. So, keep your social options open, and you will meet new friends... real friends that are in it for the long haul. I wish the warmest blessing to you as you search for new friendships.
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Thanks Gimel; yeah, I know I have to start being a little more extroverted but I guess like what you mentioned, I tend to get scared and look on the negative side. And I really like what you said (that "Your warm heart should never be bottled up, and kept away from others because of fleeting friendships.";) I'm going to try to remember that and tell that to myself!

And thanks Keith, that's very kind of you. :)
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I know that I'm just some random guy but you remind me so much of myself. If you want a new online friend, I'll be your friend. I can related to you about what you was saying. I'm probably not what you're looking for but if you want to talk to someone I'm here.
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